A MORAL AND MOTIVATED ESSAY TO DO GOOD DEEDS IN LIFE

''GOOD MANNERS''

I'm writing this blog regarding discipline and good manner a man  should  have since his childhood, and are taught good manners initially by our parents after that by our teachers and later on by the society.

         A person with good manners is appreciated by all whether he is rich or poor, beautiful or ugly, literate or illiterate. A man or woman whether they are too much highly educated and having good looks but if they are not polite and humble to others they will not be appreciated by anyone.

        Good manners are not born with  us; they have to be learnt. If a child were not taught how to behave respectfully, he would grow up rough and rude like a savage. The only difference between a cultured and uncultured man is that the former is educated and knows good manners, while the latter is illiterate and behaves like a rude man in society.

Good manners are very necessary in life as they help us to behave well in the society with people as well as help us to maintain smooth, easy and positive relationship. Good manners help us to win the heart of people in the crowd and give us a unique personality. Good manner makes us person of pleasing and obeying nature which is genuinely loved and appreciated by all in the society. 

Following good manners everywhere we go, we can better encourage people to behave well in the same manner to everyone. Some of the important good manners we can practice in our daily life are like:

• We must learn the habit of sharing (but not grabbing) things to others.
• We should be helpful, polite and humble to others at all places.
• We must use ‘sorry’, ‘please’, ‘thank you’, ‘excuse me’ and ‘time wish’ whenever required.
• We must respect the property of others and always take permission before using.
• We must help our family members in completing their chores.
• We must be responsible and self dependent for everything whether at home or outside the home.
• We must behave well with humble respect to our teachers, parents, other elders and senior citizens.
• We should not interfere between elder’s talk and must wait for our turn.
• Wash hands before eating, take meals at proper time, no talk during eating and chew well with closed mouth.
• Say “Good morning” after wakeup in the morning and “Good night” before sleeping in the night to family members.
• Brush your teeth before going to bed in night.
• We should hold the door open when someone is coming in and must hold his/her load if he/she is carrying something.
• We should maintain cleanliness at home, school, and all other public places.
• We should not use offensive language to others at home or public place.
• We must leave the seat for senior citizens while using public transport.
• We should never make fun of anyone as everyone has feelings and respect.
• We should not use mobile phone unnecessarily while being in group or public place.
• We should chew food properly and don’t talk to anyone while eating.

Following good manners not only increase the respect in people’s mind but also make us pleasant from inside. It creates the good impression in society, school, sports team, friends group and family. Life becomes much more pleasant day by day. Practicing good manners take nothing but give much more all through the life. We must practice good manners as well as encourage others to practice for the welfare of oneself, family, society and nation.